Building a Life on Her Own Terms: Sherry's Story
Some people face life’s challenges with a quiet strength that speaks louder than words. For Yuba City native, Sherry Rhoads, the journey through an aggressive cancer diagnosis, grueling treatments, and the challenges of living on disability has been a testament to her determination, independence, and unwavering desire to live life on her own terms.
Sherry was living in Oregon at the time she received news that she had aggressive stage 3 uterine cancer that had metastasized. Faced with a life-changing diagnosis, she made a decision rooted in what mattered most: family.
“When I found out I had cancer, I needed to be with my kids and grand kids,” she admitted.
In April 2025, Sherry moved back to Northern California with her beloved cat, Mr. Jack, to be closer to family.
What followed was an extensive medical battle, which included a complete hysterectomy where doctors discovered the cancer had caused her uterus, ovary, and a five-inch pelvic mass to become fused together. Her bladder also required surgical repair.
Sherry’s road to recovery would not be easy. “I went through six rounds of chemotherapy, 27 rounds of radiation treatment, and 18 rounds of maintenance chemotherapy,” she said.
Each round represented another hurdle to overcome, another demand on her physical and emotional strength. Yet she continued forward, determined to reclaim her life all the way through her last treatment on August 12, 2026.
Throughout this journey, her family has been an important source of love and support. Her father, her children, and grandchildren have stood beside her.
Initially, Sherry stayed with her daughter while recovering, sometimes spending time with her son as well. She was grateful to have family around her, but she also knew that healing meant more than simply getting through treatment.
“I wanted to be able to have my own space, and live a little more independently,” Sherry explained.
Living on disability made finding affordable housing a significant challenge. But she was not willing to give up on her goal. In May 2025, she applied to Habitat for Humanity Yuba/Sutter, beginning a journey toward a home of her own. She worked closely with Samantha from Habitat’s Supportive Outreach Services and Michelle with Hands of Hope, who encouraged her and rooted for her throughout the process.
The wait required patience, but Sherry’s persistence paid off. In March 2026, she moved into Harmony Village, where she has been building a new chapter of her life.
For Sherry, having a home is about far more than four walls and a roof. It is about independence, dignity, and the freedom to create a space that feels uniquely hers.
“I do love having my own space,” she shared.
She has made the most of her little home, even putting up a divider to create a small living room. It may seem like a simple adjustment, but it reflects her thoughtful approach to making the space her own. “The divider helps because I don’t want to see my bed when I walk into my place,” she explained.
In that small but meaningful detail lies a glimpse of Sherry’s determination to live beyond the boundaries of illness. She wants her home to feel like a place to live, not simply a place to recover. She is making room for comfort, routine, and the everyday pleasures that make life feel like her own again.
Sherry is also grateful for the support and affordability that Harmony Village provides. “I appreciate Habitat for Humanity,” she said, noting that not having to pay an electric bill makes a big difference in managing her limited income. She also uses the food bank, but only when needed, generally visiting once a month.
These practical forms of support help ease the financial strain of living on disability, allowing Sherry to focus on her health while continuing to build an independent life.
Just as important, she has found a sense of belonging in her new community. Sherry speaks warmly of the residents and staff, especially site monitor, Jessica, who she describes as “very sweet, caring and hard-working.”
Whenever there is a resident meeting, Sherry makes chili, while another resident prepares cornbread. Together, they contribute something comforting and familiar to the gathering, turning a simple meal into an opportunity for connection.
“I like the socialization. It’s good for me,” Sherry said.
Her companionship at home is equally special. Her 17-year-old cat, Jack, remains a constant source of comfort. The two go for walks around the complex together, enjoying the simple pleasure of being outdoors.
“He’s always with me and it makes me happy that he’s happy,” she shared.
Today, Sherry’s goals are clear. She wants to stay healthy, beat cancer, and continue building a future for herself. Having her children and grandchildren nearby has brought comfort and encouragement. They go to monster truck rallies and paint rocks and other crafts. And now her youngest son, who lives in Oregon, plans to move to Northern California to be closer.
Her journey is still unfolding, and the road ahead may hold challenges she cannot yet predict. But Sherry has already shown great determination in the face of adversity. She has endured demanding treatments, navigated major life changes, and continued pursuing the independence she values so deeply. Above all, she remains focused on living.
“My goal is to beat this cancer, and I’d love to go back to work,” she said.
Sherry’s story is not only one about surviving cancer, but also a story of making difficult decisions, accepting support without surrendering independence, and continuing to find joy in the small things: a cozy living space, a shared pot of chili, a walk with a beloved cat, and time spent with family.
It is also a reminder of how affordable housing and community can make a difference. A safe, stable home provides more than shelter. It can offer the foundation a person needs to heal, regain confidence, and imagine a future beyond the circumstances that brought them there.
